Sacrifice of a soldier,


A soldier is a born soldier, he never fear of sacrifice,
Whatever be the situations he acts normally and nice,
with no expressions on his face, he keep on moving towards his goal,
that is his destiny and only thing in his soul,


He walk straight in the harsh pathways,
and keeps on moving what so ever anyone says,
Fear from any mission is not in his book,
that you can easily identify from his look,

This Gentleman has true love for his girl,
And always treat her like an Angel,
If his girl says to part her ways,
He Respect her decision and calmly accept what the destiny says,


He prepare himself for any war,
And give his best whether the battlefield is near or far,
Before getting hit he destroy all his enemies,
he moves on With the flag in his hand as it fluttered in the breeze,


With smile and proud in his face, he salutes the tricolor,
and prays to become  in every life "a Savior",
he want his parents to be proud as he did the best ,
and wants his sisters bothers to be better from the rest

he promises to his girl when he is all alone in the stars above,
she is the only one he love,
soldier never regrets,
and he expects that his sacrifice countrymen never forgets,


Jai Hind!!!!

I am sharing my last SSB interview.. this was the most interesting interview of my life and it lasts for more than one hour!!!

The alarm rang which indicates my turn for the interview. (Phati padi thi bosss..:P)

The interviewing officer was The President of Bhopal SSB board. I pushed the door slowly,

Upon entering I said “Good morning Sir” He replied “Good morning”

Me: May I sit sir!!!

IO : Yes , sure

Me :Thank you sir!

IO: So, Mr Bhavesh , for how long u have been waiting for your turn

Me: 40minutes sir.

IO: What were you doing in those 40 minutes.

Me: Sir, I was having a conversation with chest number 9.

IO: Ohk…tell me something about chest number 9?

Me: (it was expected question) , confidently I said…His name is XYZ…His is from Hyderabad. He has done engineering from Hyderabad only. His father is Commodore in Indian Navy. His Brother is sub –Lieutenant in Indian Navy and his Grandfather was retired as an Indian Navy Officer. He is a District level badminton champion .Apart from this he is a very fun-loving person. He was quite good in his GTO tasks, he is quite fit and tough person.

IO: He gave me a smile and said “ u have recollected much information” about  him..are you expecting this question Bhavesh?

Me: Smile on my face … Yes sir!!

IO : Ohk good Bhavesh..

Rapid Fire 1 Starts.. J

What is your fullname?

Give all the details of your academic qualification?

What is your father’s name

What is his qualification?

Where he is working?

How much he is earning?

What is your mother’s name

What is her qualification?

Is he  working?

If Yes, How much she is earning?

How many Brother sisters you have

What are they doing?

Me: I remembered all the questions and after 2-3 seconds I started answering.

Rapid Fire 2:

So, Bhavesh where are you working?

How much salary do you earn?

What is timing in the office?

What is your daily routine in your office?

How many days do you get off in a week?

What are doing in those days?

What are you doing with your salary?

How much money you are giving to your family from your salary?

Me: Answered all the questions

Waiting for  15 seconds he fired another bullets of questions on me..:P

Rapid Fire 3:        

Do you have a grilfirend..?

If not , who is your crush?

Tell me 3 qualities in her?

Do you want to marry her?

Most romantic gift you have given to her . what was that?

IF it is a long relationship, does she want you to joinArmed Forces?

Me: Quite tough questions!! After answering all these questions..he asked one Situation(SRT) from me..:

Suppose you are in love with a girl from past 3-4 years..You both decided to get married. Both of you talked to your families .Your Family agreed but girls family doesn’t. On Sunday Morning Your father said to you “Chal beta baat karke aate hain” You both Went to their house but her family insulted your father .Your Father felt embarrassed and he said “ ab teri shaadi nahin hogi uske saath” . You both have reached your home . After reaching your home you got a call from your girlfriend she said  that she is leaving her father’s home and coming to your home. It is 10’O clock night….What will you do?

Me: Bccccccc….What a situation?? I started answering it …(samajh ni aa raha kya bolun…:P)

He was contradicting me in my each point . Our discussion last for 20minutes…

Now I was feeling the heat..

RAPID fire 4:

What all books you like?

Which is your favorite book?

What is your favourite time pass?

You have mentioned that you are a footballer? What all prizes you have won?

Me: Answered all the questions ..this brought my confidence back on track..

IO: You have also doing street plays..in act for me one situation..?

Me : Done!!!! He was impressed( Mere khayal se..:D)

IO: Why you want to join Indian Navy?

Tell me something about Indian Navy?

Are there are members from your family working in Indian Navy?

What are their Designations or Posts here?

Where are they located?

What are their units?

Me: I answered this in the best possible way I can..

IO: Tell me the neighboring countries of Indian in and Anticlockwise manner starting from Pakistan?

Me: (This was the common question he was asking to everyone..)

IO: So Bhavesh.. you are from IT field.. Tell me what is computer , OS , Virus , Addon in Browsers, give examples of some add ons ?

Me : Successfully given all the answers!!!

IO: Explain 3 qualities in you with example

Me: Answered!!

IO: I guess this is the longest interview of your life..Last question from my side..you have attended aonly 3 interviews in past 2 years why??

Me: Sir I am working in an IT industry it is quite difficult for me take frequent holidays and we are getting very less holidays there.


That was all from my side..any questions from you ..

Yes Sir, I want to know your name..!!!

IO : XYZ



It was nice talking to you gentleman.. thankyou!!

Best of luck!!

ME: Thankyou sir!!!

Ek sipaahi ke kalam se..!!


Zaroorat nahin hai un alafazon ki
jab tera chehra sab bayan karta hai,
tere ankhon ne kaha ruk jaa ae chehre ,
yeh saala aashiq to mujhe pe marta hai,

ghane kohre main halki dhoop ki tarah,
tune li mere dil main ek choti si jagah,
tujhe har baat pe sochne ki pata nahin kya hai wajah,
ki ho jaise zarre zarre main khuda ki jagah

magar tujhe pana hai bilkul waisa ,
pani main pani se pani likhne jaisa,
dhyaan se soch tu to rishta hai yeh anmol aisa,
ki kum pad jaye is duniya ka saara paisa,

Socha to yeh humne tha is desh pe mar mitna hai,
Per tujhse milne ke baad aisa laga , kuch na kuch to tere liye karna hai,
Woh teri muskurahatein kya wada kar gayi humse,
zindagi main humari ek umeed jaga gayi jaise,

Kash hum is pal ko yahin rok sakte,
aur tere saath lambe safar pe chal padte,
Per sach to yeh hain ki pal kabhi rukte nahi,
Tujhe bas door se dekhna yeh hi lagta humein sahi.....

MY LAST SSB..!!!  ..:(


My Last SSB..Yeah it needs a lot of courage to write this blog. I Have made total ____(Undisclosed..:P) attempts to get into the prestigious armed forces But not able to make it . Thank God u have given me so much patience and determination to achieve my aim but unfortunately i have made so many mistakes in every SSB that i have given. One thing i can tell u ---"what u want to do tell to God , God always listen to you and give u , damn every opportunity to fulfill your dreams" . We all must have heard the saying "GOD HELPS THOSE WHO HELPS THEMSELVES" So lets start the wonderful journey...

I Reached the 33SSB Bhopal testing center for my last SSB hoping to clear it :) Around 100 candidates reported there .  I was allotted Room no 6 with 5 other mates. In this SSB i came across many interesting candidates, interesting i must not say but exceptional candidates. One of them was "Naunath" chest number 83 don't remember the full name . The most interesting fact about that guy was that He has read Bible Geeta and Quran and knows Azans(Quran) , Hymns(Bible) and Shloks(Geeta) . I was awestruck to hear all that from a single person. Second person was Harshal Namdeo Manchekar. A true Sportsmen . That guy is district level Football and Hockey player. He has Already a NCC cadet and has Orange belt of karate . I told him dude your file is full of certificates. He told me sadly "phir bhi mujhe to lete ni yeh log in certificates ka achaar daalun kya main" . The interesting thing about the SSB procedure is that all the candidates coming here are good they have something best in them which makes them different from other.


Our first day testing completes and results were announced . The Testing Officer announced 37 chest numbers and one of them was mine. After clearing the second round i was allotted a room with 3 more candidates , one of the candidate was Harshal Namdeo, the same sporty person. The second day starts with a Psychology test toughest and most important test in whole interview procedure.Third and Fourth Day were GTO task. All went good. Now it was the time for the D Day. CONFERENCE ROUND. I was little confident this time . But unfortunately only three candidates got selected.
Tears shed from my eyes and these tears were not stopping at all because it was the last SSB for me. It means i have to wait for the Next life to join Indian Armed forces ...Oh shit mannn..itna lamba chakkar pad gaya BC"..:P

But no regrets about that because i fought till the end .  :)

One thing i want to tell .. My Indian Armed Forces are best in the world...SSB procedure is the best procedure in the world to determine OLQs withing a person...and in every life i want to join my armed forces.

Patriotism is not only a word for me , it is feeling that encourage me to do something good for my mother nation. And it is not the case that patriotism  can only be shown by joining armed forces( ab yeh mat sochna ki saale ka hua ni aur ab aisa likh raha hai..:P)

Picking up an empty can from the road and putting it in the dustbin is also patriotism. So i am now ending my blog with a three lines:


To be a male is a matter of birth...
to be a man is a matter of age...
but to be a gentlemen is a matter of choice..!!

and only some people can accomplish this..!!!

JAI HIND!!!!..:)

Take a man and put him alone,
Put him twelve thousand miles from home.
Empty his heart of all but blood,
Make him live in sand, in mud.
This is the life I have to live,
This the soul to God I give.
You have your parties and drink your beer,
While young men are dying over here.
Play your politics and have your fun,
Then refuse to use a gun.
There's nothing else for you to do,
Then I'm supposed to die for you?
There is one thing that you should know;
And that's where I think you should go!
I'm already here and it's too late.
I've traded all my love for all this hate.
I'll hate you till the day I die.
You made me hear my buddy cry.
I saw his leg and his blood shed,
Then I heard them say,"This one's dead".
It was a large price for him to pay,
To let you live another day.
He had the guts to fight and die,
To keep the freedom you live by.
By his dying, your life he buys,
But who cares if a soldier dies!

Let me tell there are lots of Doctors and Engineers,
but less who who want to become soldiers,
Try to wear their shoes,
Surely there is nothing to lose,
You are sent by the dear god not to increase the population,
but to help your fellow brothers because humanity is in bad situation,
I am not saying die for your country and become the legend,
but do some deeds so that everyone remember you before and after your life end.

 

Ek Medal Mila Maa..:)..!!!

'Ek medal mila, Maa!' "Going through hell... Keep going," says a desk graffiti in one of the classrooms at the National Defence Academy.This is told by my Friend who got into it after completing his 12th. I also tried but could not able to make it. Not an issue with that i have tried many times still trying to get into the prestigious academy. The life in academy is fully adventurous. Every action shows discipline.The uniform soaks all the pain , hardwork , sweat during your 4.5 years course at the end of it you will get the Uniform with stars on your shoulder.Someone has truly said that "Stars on shoulders of the soldier are brighter than million stars on the sky" . It is the proud moment for every parent when they put stars on the shoulders of thier son/daughter. Many of us have the misconception in our mind that it is very easy to get into armed
forces .Let me tell you that last year nearly 2 lacs students gave NDA and these students are competing for 250 seats in India Army Navy and Airforce. The whole process includes Written and SSB interview . After clearing all these students still could not able to guess that they would able to make it to the all india merit list...:)
In other words "THE PLEASURE OF DRIVING A BMW, HONDA CITY CAN BE PURCHASED BUT THE PLEASURE OF DRIVING A "GYPSY" IS ONLY FOR SOME FEW LUCKY PERSON...;)"

17-18 is the age of faccha cadet(First Year cadet..:P), that they are binding themselves to a life of immense hardship, silent sacrifices, incompatible pay, separation from families- but the satisfaction that their spine will always be straight. Ordinary boys like Arun Khetrapal, NJ Nair, Sandeep Unnikishnan,Manoj Pandey, Yogender Singh Yadav, Nirmaljit Singh Sekhon ,Vijayant Thapar , Vikram Batra, Mohit Sharma and dozen others and who turned into legends.(Can't recognize most of the names?Tellyou later.) To give you an idea, one of them ran cross-country witha fractured leg - yes, a fractured leg - at the NDA just so he wouldn'tlet his squadron down. There are others who have fought wars andoperated in CI ops even when they were
advised strict bedrest...In An ssb interview The President of the selection center asked Captain Manoj Pandey that why do youwant to join Indian Army. He said that i want Parman veer Chakra as the Gallantry award .

I refuse to believe that the boys who show such spirit and courage at such a young age would go about killing women and children. It is easier to believe that the sun goes around the earth. These soldiers do not ask for any favors  Just some understanding. Every officer I know is almost embarrassed to talk about his "heroism"."It's no big deal,"they say. That's what they signed up for. A Param Vir Chakra winner, for instance, went home to nurse half a dozen bullet wounds, told his mother "Ek medal mila, Ma," and forgot to mention that he had single handedly captured a Pakistani position. His mother knew only when his village heard it on the radio and mobbed his hut.The Indian soldier comes from a family like yours and mine. He is a part of society and is subject to the same pulls and pressures. Inflation pinches him, he has his own domestic problems, has elderly parents to look after, and is worried about the education of his child.

Some words from the "Ashayein" song(film : IQBAL)
"Kuch aisa karke dikha, khud khush ho jaye khuda" . I truly believe that dying while serving your nation is far better(no comparision) than dying in an accident or by any disease  I am not concluding my article because i want the readers to conclude my article.

JAI HIND!!!

I want My rifle to be my best friend,But I have made keyboard my Best friend. 
It is my life. 
I must master it as I must master my life.

My rifle, without me is as alone,
As I am without it, i have mouse and keyboard in my hands..
I must shoot straighter than my enemy who is trying to kill me. 
I must shoot him before he shoots me. I will....but unfortunately my enemies are the bugs that i got while testing..

I want the hear the sound of my rifle when it hits the enemy hard..But unfortunately i am hearing the sound that my CPU fan makes..
i want to serve my country and make that my life...but unfortunately i am serving US clients..
I want to learn weaknesses, strength while fighting enemies..but unfortunately i am learning the weaknesses and strength while coding and testing .. 

I want to guard my rifle against bad weather and damage. 
I will keep my rifle clean and ready, but unfortunately i am gaurding my System to prevent it from "Virus threats"..

I want to follow the hierarchy..Lt,Captain ,Major,Colonel,Brigadier..............
But unfortunately i may have to follow the hierarchy SE,SSE,LE,PL,PM,SPM....